Our vacation at the Lodge is fabulous. Wish you were here!
No kidding, that's a bit how it feels at the Hope Lodge. This morning I went down to the community lunchroom expecting to have my usual bowl of cereal, but instead discovered that a Relay for Life team was serving breakfast. Lots of fruit, baked egg dishes, bagels, oj, and coffee. On two nights this past week, church groups served us supper. A shuttle bus takes to and from all of our appointments. There are lounges with TVs, an exercise room (which I've used), free laundry facilities. All of this is at no charge to the guest (me) and caregiver. It blows me away!
The rooms are small, but adequate. It's quiet on the floor, so sleep comes easy, usually.
The past week, I've had every test one might imagine: blood panel, urine analysis (sidebar: I needed to provide a 24 hour catch and the nurse gave John the job of carrying my jug around, denoting him my Pee Sherpa--he did it well); heart scan, EKG, CT scan, chest X-ray, bone marrow biopsy.
My donor, brother Rob, had his work up on Thursday, which took a lot longer than anticipated because he ran into what we are at this point classifying as a minor glitch. His platelet count was a tiny bit below the normal range. After reaching a couple of his doctors in Anchorage to find out what previous blood tests revealed, the doc at the U thought he should have a bone marrow biopsy just to rule out any potential whatevers. It doesn't seem to be too problematic--his other tests showed a lower count, but within the normal range.
My EKG showed an abnormality, so I consulted with a cardiologist yesterday who didn't seem too concerned, but scheduled a stress test for me on Monday just to be on the safe side. It will be a recumbent bike stress test.
Tuesday is the day I find out from my team leader, Dr. Vercillotti, whether or not the transplant is a go. If not, then I'm sure we'll discuss options. If it is, then I'll be admitted to the hospital on Wednesday or Thursday where I'll be fitted for another "line" which will be inserted into my carotid artery. My port won't be used as much. Chemo, as well as a myriad of other meds, will begin shortly thereafter. Whole body radiation will be administered next. In the meantime, Rob will receive injections of neupogen to stimulate cell growth. When that's done, we're ready to roll. They extract blood from Rob, spin it in an apheresis machine to extract the stem cells, and then return the blood, minus the stem cells, back to Rob. They collect about a "half can of Coke" of the cells which is infused into me. The infusion takes about an hour. We're not exactly sure when that will happen, if it does, but that day would be another birthday for me to celebrate. I'm kind of hoping for the 26th because that's my dad's birthday, but any day would be welcome!
Rob and his wife, Judy, arrived on Wednesday. They are also staying at the Lodge. My sister, Betsy, and her husband, Pete, flew in from Arlington, VA, on Wednesday as well. We all went to a Mediterranean restaurant that evening. The next day we all met up with my brother, Tom, and my other brother, John, and his wife, Marilyn, as well as my son, Chris, my daughter, Rebekah and her family. We had lunch at The Tea House, close to the Lodge. It was great fun. Of course, we missed other family members. My sister, Ann, would have enjoyed the gathering immensely. And my daughter, Megan, and her family would also have liked to be with us. I hope to post some photos soon of others trying on my wig and a few of my big bro Tom, bald like me, looking very much like my twin.
Today, Bekah's going to pick me up for a photo shoot at the Walker. I had told her I needed a decent one for the paper, if you get my drift. I think she knows how to make it look like me, but better. Like, maybe she can cut down on the neck size for crying out loud?
John D. went to Mankato to retrieve a few things and to check on the house. He'll come back tomorrow. Rob and Judy went to the Twins game with John R. and Marilyn. I'm home alone! Who wants to party?
I started a Caringbridge site, but won't do anything with it until we get the go-ahead. I'll continue to use this blog for updates.
I love you.
Kathy
Hi Kathy, I looked up the place where you are staying in Minneapolis and it looks like a great place. Wow, What a schedule you have. It must be great to see your family. I am going to visualize that the transplant is a go. You are in my thoughts every day. Love you loads, Anne McQuaid
ReplyDeleteWish you were with me!
DeleteI wish I were there also. Maybe I will make that happen in the near future.
DeleteDear Sister, I wish I could have been with you at the Restaurant. By all accounts, you looked absolutely beautiful. I heard Johnny looked lovely in the wig, and would have taken best modeling honors if it hadn't been for his goatee. Today was Scott's birthday. Can you believe he is almost as old as I am? We all went to lunch for BBQ, our favorite cuisine. Everybody is rooting for you and sends their love.
ReplyDelete♥Ann
You were greatly missed, Ann. Yes, Johnny was all stylin' in the wig. Rob thought he looked a little like Robin Williams. I'm going to ask Pete to send his photos so I can post.
DeleteI hope the b-day bbq was deeelishious!
Love,
Kathy
It was so nice to laugh like that with everyone. While we missed other loved ones, it was a joy seeing everyone. I'm glad we could make it.
ReplyDeleteI love you, Mom!
Me, too! It was the best. It was also fun spending time with you and the girls today -- Chris and Suzie, too. Too bad about the ping pong table. I shudder when I think of Ruby chasing after the ball UNDER that same table. We are so lucky nobody was hurt when it came crashing down.
DeleteLove you, Bekah!
Oh, and Cora, too. She was ball shagging under the table as well! Yikes!
DeleteI hope all goes well for you. You're in my prayers.
ReplyDeleteMuch love to you and John and everybody else.
Kate O'Sullivan
Thanks, Kate. I'm thinking about you and how you'll be graduating from college soon! Congratulations! Have a great summer doing your camp thing and then best of luck at grad school. You'll be marvelous at whatever you do in life--I just know it.
DeleteLove,
Kathy
Kath, thanks for the memories made during Peter's and my brief visit home. You were a great hostess! You looked marvelous. Marilyn took a photo of you that was positively stunning, so you should get that from her. I want it for my fridge.
ReplyDeleteIt was so wonderful seeing you, up close and personal, as well as your kids and grandkids. I missed seeing Megan and Troy and company. I'm keeping my fingers crossed on Robby's platelet count.
I love you right back.
Betsy
It was certainly fun. Hey, if Pete has time, could he send me some of the photos via email? I think he got some good ones.
DeleteLove you, Littlebutt!
Kathy
Hi Kathy. Thanks for the description of your digs at the Hope Lodge and the happy news of your family reunion. Sounds like a fun time. That photo that Bekah posted on her facebook of you is stunning. Looks like something you could use as an "about the author" back cover of a best seller by Kathy Dorn!
ReplyDeleteThe above comment is by me.....Mary O'Sullivan
DeleteOK...here we go! Please know that I'm going to be counting very carefully to 100 and know there will be a lot of others who will too. Am watching from Bonsall.
ReplyDeleteBob Johnson
Hello Aunt Kathy, I have been following your blog with great interest. I admire your ability to keep everything in order for us to read. I always have great intention of keeping a diary of sorts for folks to keep updated on my lifes journey but can't even keep track of my facebook updates! It doesn't appear that is a "Ruddy" thing because the whole clan is pretty good at keeping in touch and updating one another! I send you healing strength and energy on this journey and want to let you know you are on my mind every day. Much love, Lauren
ReplyDeleteHi. Thanks for the great blog plus Bekah's w/the wonderful photos. All the classy and wonderfully written comments have collectively embedded an image which I will never forget. Iwill go before you sis. I plan on being here for a long time. You are a beautiful person. You are my inspiration and my model and heroine. You are constantly in our thoughts and prayers. Love 'n hugs, Tommy
ReplyDeleteHi Kathy-I send much love and many blessings for your well being and that of John and your family. It is so good to hear that the U and accommodations are comfortable. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I think of every thought of you as a prayers and that means several times daily.
ReplyDeleteLove, Linda Carole
PS--The pictures are fabulous! I think I see a resemblance to Elizabeth Taylor.